Shitstorm

This month's just been one massive shitstorm. And the beauty is that none of it is mine but directly affects me because of the relationships I have. I've got a lump in my throat and I wish I was in control of this situation. I hate it when people think they know it all, but in this case, for this certain person, I do know it all. I know what is best for her and what her decisions should be about life, living and work. But how can I help someone that does not want to be helped?
I almost don't want to know anything about her plans or actions or what's on her mind coz it ends up giving me high BP. I hate this feeling.
Nothing is in control.